You’ve been thinking about it for a while. You’ve looked at the options. You’ve considered what matters to you. You’ve finally decided what you’re going to do.
You tell someone.
“I don’t know. I think I’d do the other one.”
That’s all they say.
You ask why. They give you a couple of reasons. Nothing you hadn’t considered before.
Still, something shifts.
You start going back through everything again. Maybe you overlooked something. Maybe you’re making the wrong choice.
A few minutes ago, you were sure.
Now you’re not.